There are those that preplan gifts, and then there are those that… don’t. It’s like decision paralysis or they forgot what day it was because it completely slips there mind. Or they procrastinate it and you end up with SOCKS.
Socks… 😑
But really…
Let’s just get one thing clear. No matter what you get, or where you get it from.
Do. Not. Show. Up. Empty. Handed.⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️
A homemade card and some flowers will get you a lot farther than, ‘I forgot’
You want your wife to say ‘WOW, this was really thoughtful’, or, ‘I can’t believe you knew to get this’. So, let’s make it happen by looking at the popular items for this year.
But it’s cool, because we know people that publish these gift guides are life savers. and then either the husbands can google it OR the wives can send it to them in a text and then tada! Problem solved.
While your getting started with the holiday festivities, you’ve got to make sure you get in the spirit too! Sometimes this looks like decorating the tree at the fire station or staying up late with the kids to make a Firefighter themed elf on the shelf display.
Other times, that means taking a breather because this holiday season is stressing you TF out and doing your best to help the kids understand that the holidays are hella weird for first responders.
Whatever you do this holiday season, just remember that your life is the ultimate gift.

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Firefighter Wife Gifts for Christmas 2019
These truly beautiful sun catchers are a wonderful gift for the 'wife who has everything'. These can be placed outside on the porch and provide enjoyment year-round. The best part is that these are placed where kids and animals won't have a chance to break them!
I know that we have lots of women that work in the first responder field as lifesavers themselves, so the firefighter wife stuff isn't there thing. BUT they can still rep it with some more modern apparel like this Baseball Cap for her!
Subtle, yet stunning, this thin red line necklace is a bestseller on Etsy! The perfect way for her to carry her firefighter with her, while not wearing something that looks like it came from a cereal box.
Firefighter Keychains With Dog Tag and Maltese Cross Personalized Just For You
Grab this cute keychain and customize it with your numbers. This is the NUMBER ONE thing that women click on Fire Dept. Family (yes I have the stats to prove this) and it's hella popular on Etsy. Most people like it because it's a subtle, yet deeply meaningful, gift. Typically, the spouse gets it for the firefighter, so just say it's from santa 😉
This stunning jewelry box is hand carved and personalized. Starts out at 20 dollars! This is a steal for the craftsmen ship that you get! This shop on Etsy also has some beautiful hand-carved recipe books and combs. If she likes hand made and one of a kind, this shop is a must see!
Does your wife need a minute to herself? Give her the gift of pampering AND silence with the opportunity to spend time treating herself and the promise of the time to do it!
POP candles are Insanely popular! They've been featured so many places and for good reason, they're freaking hilarious! Grab this one (or one of the many other ones in her shop) and give a candle with a cute message that will delight over and over again.
Need a 'one up' gift? Do it with something visual like this Custom made Wooden Picture Plank. Even better, grab a meaningful and sentimental picture for a gift she'll never forget.
Looking for gifts under 30 dollars? Etsy has a great selection!
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